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Dating apps · long con · "I'm stuck overseas"

A relationship that moves fast online but never to a video call — built to ask for money, gift cards, or "an investment".

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Guides in Romance

8 published · newest first.

Elevated
AI companion and chatbot scams: when there's no human on the other end of the conversation
Two different dangers hide behind one screen: romance and investment scams now run by AI chatbots instead of people, and companion apps that monetize your attachment while logging everything you say. The FTC and state attorneys general opened formal inquiries in 2025. Here's how to tell what you're talking to — and the one rule no bot can beat.
Reviewed Aug 7, 2026 · 6 min read
High
When love asks for your bank account: romance scams that make you a money mule
Your online partner doesn't ask you for money — they ask to send money through you. Deposit this check, forward that transfer, receive a package. This is money-mule recruitment, and it can leave you laundering stolen funds and facing criminal charges, even if you never lose a cent. Here is how to recognize it and the rule that stops it.
Reviewed Jun 25, 2026 · 5 min read
High
AI romance scams: why a face, a voice, and even a video call no longer prove your match is real
For years the advice was simple — do a reverse image search and ask for a video call. Generative AI has quietly broken both checks. Here is what changed, and the one test that still works.
Reviewed Jun 24, 2026 · 6 min read
High
The "deployed soldier" romance scam: why a real service member never needs your money
A caring partner who says they are a U.S. soldier deployed overseas — and who soon needs money for leave papers, a flight home, or a secure phone. It is one of the oldest online romance scams, and one fact unravels all of it: the real military pays for those things, not you.
Reviewed Jun 21, 2026 · 6 min read
Elevated
Someone you love is in a romance scam: how to help without pushing them away
When a friend or relative is caught in a romance scam, blunt confrontation backfires. Here are the warning signs, how to talk to them with empathy, and the concrete steps that actually help.
Reviewed Jun 20, 2026 · 5 min read
Severe
Sextortion: what it is, and exactly what to do if it happens to you
Someone you met online threatens to share intimate images unless you pay. It is called sextortion, it targets teens and adults alike, and the way out is clear: don't pay, don't panic, save the evidence, and tell someone. Here is how it works and what to do — step by step.
Reviewed Jun 20, 2026 · 6 min read
Elevated
Is your online match real? How to spot a fake dating profile before you fall
A romance scammer's whole game is a fake persona. Two free checks — a live video call and a reverse image search — expose most of them before any money is asked for. Here is what to look for.
Reviewed Jun 20, 2026 · 5 min read
Elevated
Romance scams: how to tell when an online love interest is a scammer
Romance scammers build trust over weeks on dating apps and social media, then ask for money — or steer you into a fake investment. Here’s how it works, the tells, and the free move that defeats it.
Reviewed Jun 19, 2026 · 4 min read

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